08-01-2007
Keeping Peace and Harmony
I work with the public. I see a lot of people each and everyday. Not only do I have to go through my day bending forward and backward for our clients, I have to do the same with my co-workers. Keeping peace and harmony at the work place is very important to me.
I think that with so many personalities, thoughts, and opinions, it is very crucial that I learn how to dance. Yes, I said dance.
Due to the fact that most people march to the beat of their own drum, I feel as though being able to gracefully dance with them is imperative. If you listen and pay attention, you could dance with anyone. This could avoid having toes stepped on, including your own.
Lucid’s Thoughts: If you pay close attention to that particular person and their needs, you will be able to flow better with them. You will know when to talk and when to shut it and just listen. Happiness, it is all about happiness; right?! Share your thoughts and feelings. Other people may be feeling or thinking the same things that you are but are afraid to talk about it.
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August 1st, 2007 at 6:43 am
Hey Lucid,
Great new template. I once heard a great quote about happiness,
“Until you make peace with who you are, you’ll never be content with what you have.”
– Doris Mortman
August 1st, 2007 at 11:10 am
Hi Lucid, glad to see you are back!
…. I like the new look. Is that why your site was down?
Anyway, it is true… most people do march to the beat of their own drum, I had to learn how to “dance” and I had to learn it the hard way. (Family not at work)
Welcome Back!
August 1st, 2007 at 9:05 pm
Lucid,
Love the new look!
Great advice, it’s not all about us is it? We must consider the needs of others.
August 2nd, 2007 at 1:30 am
Good evening Alexys!
That quote is such a powerful message, and it proves to be true. How many people do we know or hear of that are wealthy, have all the materials of the world, or has 50 friends (none of which can be trusted), yet they seem sad, lonely, empty inside.
Think of how great it would be to have the luxuries of this world, and be genuinely happy.
Great addition, thank you!
August 2nd, 2007 at 1:33 am
You wanna know what I dont like… When there are a group of people you are working with and things are going good then all of a sudden things change! People quit, get fired, move, get a promotion and then go to another department.
I am game for change but… to much is not good either.
I also like the site Lucid!
August 2nd, 2007 at 1:34 am
Hi Cheri,
Glad to be back. No the site was down due to the server (hosting) I am in the process of having my cousin switch it. I felt alil out of the loop those few days. It is amazing how positive energy flows between sites!
Do you know how many dances we must learn to keep in rhythm with the world
… I am tired already lol
Have a good night!
August 2nd, 2007 at 1:39 am
Hi Mark!
It’s all about one another…. All we have are each other and that needs to be valued and respected, so you are right we must always consider the needs of others!
Your thoughts are appreciated!
August 2nd, 2007 at 1:42 am
I just want to thank you the 3 of you for complimenting the new theme on Ask Lucid. :) My cousin picked it out and uploaded it for me. I am not a computer person outside blogging…
It has made me happy. Sorry the site was down those few days… Grrr … I was patient though, I am proud of myself (giggling) (Learning over here every day)
August 2nd, 2007 at 2:43 am
Good Wednesday evening to you, Lucid !
Glad that you are back ! The site looks pretty with the changes !
And I can comment !!!!!! Yeee-haw !
Sensitivity to another can make a world of communication open up. You make a good point here.
It is very much a dance, and that makes me think of ‘The King and I’ musical with Yul Brynner and Gertrude Lawrence, with him whirling her around the ballroom in that gorgous hoop skirt !
August 2nd, 2007 at 12:26 pm
I loved that movie Annie! Wow what a flash back moment. I have not thought about it in awhile. I call my husband Yul sometimes because he shaves his head completely bald (not that he has to). Hey… it would make a great Crystal Ball (just kidding)
Anyways, thank you for your compliment on the site! I like it too. I am so glad you can comment now.
If there is lack of communication in any form of relationship, things are bound to collapse!
Have a wonderful!!! Great to hear from you
August 2nd, 2007 at 2:03 pm
Hi, Lucid!
I agree…the new look is fabulous and very user friendly.
The analogy of ‘dancing’ is so appropo. Working with clients and coworkers in a way that is harmonious really takes finese and an awareness…and awareness of who we are, who they are, and the subtle dynamics of the relationship(s) involved.
I’ve found that giving is probably THE best olive branch in the office. Giving a compliment. Giving a smile. Giving an offer to help or even bringing in some little treat for everyone to share.
Thanks for a great post - as I get ready for work today, I’ll be thinking of ways to increase the peace there!
August 2nd, 2007 at 11:02 pm
Hey Grace….. Do you work in the same office as me…? lol …. We do, do alot of those things you mentioned. Last year I moved from one office to another with a promotion, within the same company. The office that I came from was a bit trying, and I was tired. Where I am at now is different. Even on the bad days we have a good day (if that makes sense)… I make sure I let the poeple in my office know that I appreciate them together and on an individual level.
Glad you like the new look!
Thank you for your addition! Have a good night!
August 3rd, 2007 at 12:26 am
Hello Eric, sorry I either didn’t see you up there or you squeezed in-between the others some how…
I don’t like when I am friendly with someone and they move. This is true of all my relationships. I know change is suppose to be good, and being in that comfort zone is stale but… God there are a few good people I miss dearly.
My best friend moved to Finland a few years ago. My heart hurts from missing her so much!!!! And sometimes the people we work with become like family. I mean hey… we spend just as much time, if not more with them right!
Have a great night!
March 15th, 2008 at 10:40 am
Becoming attuned to yourself enables you to become more attuned to others. Every relationship has more than one purpose for us. What we see now may differ from how we understood the past. Its not our role to remove the masks or deceptions of others. We need to learn what kinds of masks we are wearing. To become discerning is to uncover our own subtle variations of defense.