Vicki Asks:
If those who pass away come back to say goodbye, wouldn’t it be upsetting to the person who had passed, especially if everyone was upset over them?

Lucid’s Thoughts:
It could definitely upset someone who has passed to keep visiting the living. If someone was not mentally ready to die, it could hinder their advancement. Though we would love to keep our loved ones near, we can not be selfish. The dead should not linger on the earth plane.

Once a person has passed, there are events that need to take place, and need to be done in a specific order. When we interrupt or mess with this, their progress is slow. In the long run it is not healthy for either party to hold on and not let go.