David F Wrote:
Hello Lucid, My wife passed last month. We just had a beautiful baby girl. I have had several 3d in color dreams with her and found several pennies. Lately I keep hearing voices in my head. They are always comforting, but I wonder if it’s just me or maybe my wife. Is there a way to tell the difference?

Lucid’s Thoughts:
Hello David, I am so sorry to hear of your loss!!!! My heart goes out to you and your family!!!! It is not easy being a single parent especially in this case. I wish for you strength and stamina! Let those who are around you support and assist you.

Dreams are a way of communicating with those who have passed on. They are also the minds’ way of sorting and making sense of things that may not be so easy to do while we are awake.

I believe we visit our loved ones in our dreams, so it is possible she has visited. You said this all just happened a month ago. You heart is still aching and your wound is wide open. She knows this and may be trying to give you some comfort. I can not say for sure if the voices you are hearing are hers, or if it is your memory of her that is comforting you.

For me, usually with a visitation, whether it be a dream or a voice, a feeling comes along with it that is not easily described. This is a helpful tool for me when trying to validate the authenticity of the visit. Keep your mind open to signs of validation.

Grieving is a very personal thing, and we all do it in different ways. Give yourself some time. I believe we live on past this physical world, but I also know it is easy to get caught up between our world and theirs. Keeping her close in your mind & soul while you heal may ease some of the void which is good, but remember you have yourself and your beautiful little one to care for too.

Blessings to you, your daughter, and extended family!!!!

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